Proverbs 27

10 Do not forsake your own friend or your father’s friend,
Nor go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity;
Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away.

Ironic, if you read the grubbykupp blog, today. We're looking at the answer to my question, here. Help is help, when you need it, where you live. Accept it. Don't keep needs and their remedy "in the family".

"...my father's friend..." Who is My Father's friend? Those who do what he says, no? People who love. People who help. People who care... wow. the field is wider than we thought, out here...